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You have reached Erica's Blog. This is a place where her friends and family can go to get updates on her and her treatments. Thanks to all the generous donations received Erica has had financial support to pay for: vitamin infusions, special dietary needs, adaptive aids after her surgery, living expenses while she is unable to work, cancer vaccine therapy and travel to Alaska and California to visit family and friends. Erica remains positive and strong.
Erica
Earrings for Erica
Thank you to all the great businesses who sold earrings to benefit Erica. We will continue to sell earrings to benefit other young women in our community going through similar situations. Look for more information on where and when we will be selling. We will also post information about who will benefit from monies raised. Earrings for Erica will be available at the Quota bazaar at Alaskaland on Nov 21st.
Contacting Erica
- Erica email: Tomsha_7@yahoo.com
- Mark & Anita email: grizzlylodge@acsalaska.net
- Erica 805-458-0643 or 907-799-7982
- Anita 488-0293
- Mark 378-9747
- Erica's mailing address: 1470 Westmoreland Ave. Fairbanks, Alaska 99712
Ways to help in addition to your thoughts and prayers
- Help make earrings to sell, contact Robyn 322-5086
- Donate money to Denali State Bank - Erica Tomsha Benefit Fund - account #9013806, transfer money with routing number 125200921, send check to Bank @ PO Box 74568, Fbks, AK 99707
- Donate air miles - Alaska Airlines #000858060
- Fundraising Ideas - contact Robyn 490-6485 or email davrobyn@hotmail.com
Donate with a credit card through PayPal
Account was set up by Darcy (Davies) Etcheverry, so her email is listed at the top.
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- Erica and fiance arrived in Fairbanks last night. ...
- Hi All! Today was a relaxing day, Cancer vacation ...
- Well, today didn’t exactly go as planned. There we...
- So, I had a Dr. appointment today with my main onc...
- Hi All! Im doing pretty darn good today. Someone g...
- Well today was a hard day, I had to go to the Dr. ...
- Hi everyone...Im feeling much better today. My Dad...
- Well Im doing my best being on "Bed Rest". Its no...
- Well I had a Dr. appt. today. I got a BRIEF overvi...
- Thursday, December 13
- Wednesday, 12-12-07
- message from Erica
- out of hospital
- hospital room
- Monday surgery
- Christmas time.
- A little history
- A Letter From Erica
- Cancer Vaccine
- from Erica
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A little history
23 year old Erica Tomsha was born and raised in Fairbanks. Parents Mark and Anita are also long time Alaskans. Anita’s grandparents (Carlson) moved to Kodiak in the 40’s to work on WWII construction projects. From there the lure of gold drew them to Fairbanks. Anita’s dad followed and opened up Music Mart in Fairbanks 60 years ago. Mark moved to Fairbanks in the early 70’s.
From an early age Erica shared her mothers passion for horses. Learning to ride when she was 4 she quickly figured out she had to make sure her pony knew she was the boss. In elementary school she joined the Golden Heart 4-H club to continue to learn. As she got older she expanded her perspective to include IHA, ACTA, IHC, Pony Club, 4-H community service and leadership activities. She was an active member of the Tanana Whirlwinds 4-H group in high school and helped to advocate for and pass the limited liability for livestock bill which helps to insure personal responsibility for accidents occurring around livestock animals. That exposure to politics led her to an internship with Senator Stevens.
After attending UAF for a couple of years she decided to move to California where she could pursue her dream of working with horses. She has been actively training horses and riders and enjoying being around magnificent Grand Prix horses.
Although Erica had to move to Seattle for her cancer treatment she has continued to work and learn, giving riding lessons and training horses. She moved into an apartment of her own. Her father has been able to stay with her through most of her chemotherapy. Erica has lost her hair from her treatments but does not try to hide it. She encourages people to ask her about her cancer and is anxious to share her experience in the hope of teaching or providing comfort to others.Erica remains positive and upbeat. She appreciates all the concern and well wishes from her friends.
From Erica on December 6th
I want people to know that I found a lump last December that was about the size of a pencil eraser. I went to the clinic the next day and the nurse told me it was probably nothing, and because of my age it was very unlikely that it was serious. So naturally i believed her, and I continued on with my life as usual. However, 6 months later the pencil eraser grew to be the size of a golf ball in a week! So I went back to that clinic and the same nurse agreed that I probably needed a biopsy! DUH! 2 days later the same nurse told me I had Invasive Ductile Carcinoma, (I found out later that I was a stage 3a, 4 is terminal), and she told me this while crying. 2 days after that I came to Seattle because not having insurance limits my care options in California, and plus Seattle has better cancer hospitals, unless you go to UCLA or SanFran and being 300 miles away is just as hard as being 1500 miles away from home.
Being here has really changed my life; it has forced me to live in a different way (I have learned a lot about myself), it has forced me to DRAMATICALLY change my diet (which is the most important thing a cancer patient can do). I have had to watch my spending, it's hard to work when you're getting chemo once a week. I am working a little, and in return my boss (whose ex husband I live with) pays my rent. But there are so many things that the charity care program at Swedish Hospital does not cover, such as supplements and alternative treatments like acupuncture, vitamin infusions, and the cancer vaccine. It also doesn't pay for things like reconstructive surgery (which unless I want to be the one boobed wonder I will need to get). I don't have the price for this yet but i will get it as soon as I can. I have also definitely learned who my real friends are, the ones who care.
From an early age Erica shared her mothers passion for horses. Learning to ride when she was 4 she quickly figured out she had to make sure her pony knew she was the boss. In elementary school she joined the Golden Heart 4-H club to continue to learn. As she got older she expanded her perspective to include IHA, ACTA, IHC, Pony Club, 4-H community service and leadership activities. She was an active member of the Tanana Whirlwinds 4-H group in high school and helped to advocate for and pass the limited liability for livestock bill which helps to insure personal responsibility for accidents occurring around livestock animals. That exposure to politics led her to an internship with Senator Stevens.
After attending UAF for a couple of years she decided to move to California where she could pursue her dream of working with horses. She has been actively training horses and riders and enjoying being around magnificent Grand Prix horses.
Although Erica had to move to Seattle for her cancer treatment she has continued to work and learn, giving riding lessons and training horses. She moved into an apartment of her own. Her father has been able to stay with her through most of her chemotherapy. Erica has lost her hair from her treatments but does not try to hide it. She encourages people to ask her about her cancer and is anxious to share her experience in the hope of teaching or providing comfort to others.Erica remains positive and upbeat. She appreciates all the concern and well wishes from her friends.
From Erica on December 6th
I want people to know that I found a lump last December that was about the size of a pencil eraser. I went to the clinic the next day and the nurse told me it was probably nothing, and because of my age it was very unlikely that it was serious. So naturally i believed her, and I continued on with my life as usual. However, 6 months later the pencil eraser grew to be the size of a golf ball in a week! So I went back to that clinic and the same nurse agreed that I probably needed a biopsy! DUH! 2 days later the same nurse told me I had Invasive Ductile Carcinoma, (I found out later that I was a stage 3a, 4 is terminal), and she told me this while crying. 2 days after that I came to Seattle because not having insurance limits my care options in California, and plus Seattle has better cancer hospitals, unless you go to UCLA or SanFran and being 300 miles away is just as hard as being 1500 miles away from home.
Being here has really changed my life; it has forced me to live in a different way (I have learned a lot about myself), it has forced me to DRAMATICALLY change my diet (which is the most important thing a cancer patient can do). I have had to watch my spending, it's hard to work when you're getting chemo once a week. I am working a little, and in return my boss (whose ex husband I live with) pays my rent. But there are so many things that the charity care program at Swedish Hospital does not cover, such as supplements and alternative treatments like acupuncture, vitamin infusions, and the cancer vaccine. It also doesn't pay for things like reconstructive surgery (which unless I want to be the one boobed wonder I will need to get). I don't have the price for this yet but i will get it as soon as I can. I have also definitely learned who my real friends are, the ones who care.
7 comments:
Erica-
I'm glad I got this web page from Andrea and Mike. I always have you in my thoughts. I hope that the surgery went well and you feel stronger each day. Please let me know if you need anything. I am always available to drive up to Seattle on the weekends. Don't hesitate to ask for anything...even if it is just to have company. Nando, my mom and I will keep you in our prayers. You are an inspiration for everyone! I love you and miss you. Karen
Hi Erica,
It is nice to be able to read what you are thinking and feeling as a way to stay in touch. Please keep writing and inspiring us all with your strength and learned wisdom. It is hard to imagine what you are going through, and I hope you can try to feel like you will never go through this alone. You are loved by many people and I hope I can do some small part in providing comfort to you in this challenging time. Please keep us all posted with your recovery from surgery. I would like to come visit you soon so be sure to let me know how you are doing. Take care, cousin, its good to be in touch again..
Erica,
You have been in my thoughts since I heard from Andrea all that is going on... she has kept me updated. Please know you are thought about and prayed about. You will get through this, its just a matter of Time. You will come out a stronger and wiser person. Just yell at Karen and I when you are ready for company, and we will consider it a road trip :)
Michelle
Dear Erica,
My love goes out to you in bounds and leaps I cannot even begin to jump. We have talked tonight and you sound quite well. Deep down I hope this is true. If I could, I would try to see you face to face. I anticipate a healthy recovery. Bravery and courage are two assets you never lacked. I think about you daily and I hope to see you come Christmas. My prayers and thoughts for you become everyday practice. You will hear from me quite soon. Thank you for your friendship, thank you for your time. You are my hero. Love, Pete
HAIKUS FOR YOU
Early morning blues
Snowy windy darkened hues
Just found out good news!
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Her mood is unplugged
Trying to find an outlet
In the midst of hope
pete
Hi Erica! Thank you for sharing your blog! Wow, I am impressed!
I am thinking about you and you continue to be in my prayers. I am so blown away by your strength and good spirits! Seeing you always makes me smile!
Like someone else said...You are my hero too!
Hug, Jennifer and Happy
Hi Erica!
Wow, it was great to hear that you're feeling good and even went shopping today! I'm glad you have Chelsea to pal with this week. I'm so happy you'll be on the mend over Christmas; we're all anticipating you'll be with us soon. Your Mom and Christopher and the kids and I went to Two Rivers Church on Sunday and had the whole congregation pray for you. It was a great experience. I also shared about your Mom praying there eleven years ago for me when I had cancer. It was "full circle". Love and kisses,
Auntie Barbara
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